#but i dont. need to. like i tend to want to go nonverbal in confrontations a lot but i always sort of struggle through them

[space-station-nursery]

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Babi's Name, age, pronouns┊・𓂃 Hi! im Finnegan, but prefer to go by Finn. Im 20 (21 on Jan 18th) and my pronouns are They/Them! Babi's timezone┊・𓂃 CST! (or central standard time) Bubby's Name, age, pronouns┊・𓂃 Hi im FD, im 21 and my pronouns are He/Him Bubby's timezone┊・𓂃 MST (or mountain standard time) Boundaries┊・𓂃 Please don't ask either of us to be your Little/cg, we are engaged and are not looking for romantic or platonic littles/cgs. Dms are open for anyone +16 or -26 (i had a bad past with older individuals on tumblr). Listen when we say "No!". If you would like to be moots/friends, please at least interact with our posts, its incredibly uncomfortable to have random txts from people asking to be friends that just followed 3 minutes before.

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About Babi┊・𓂃 I am a flip leaning regressor, and regress to about age 0-4. I am a sleepy, but bubby when regressed! Sometimes i go nonverbal, but i use a pacifier almost all the time. There is a ton of trauma surrounding my regression and it was very hard to regress. Now, with the help of bubby there is hope! I can only regress for small periods of time, and it needs to be assisted but its a great start and i hope that when we live together it'll boost my regression more! About Bubby┊・𓂃 I am Finns CG, and I love my babi bear! I do everything I can to make sure they feel safe and comfy here when regressing, as well as when they aren't Views on sitters┊・𓂃 We do not see sitters as something either of us would want to be apart of unless it was us sitting for/being sat by someone we know very well. My current sitter is @sleeplessjunkie Who generally just regresses with me when bubby is gone while we play games !!!! We will either talk a lot or not at all, and thats ok bc talk is hard! (we're also both autistic)

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What is a DNI? These are "Do not interact" boundaries, this means that if your blog meets any of these criteria you may be blocked\banned\removed from a persons socials. Below are my DNI's so make sure to read them!

・Are anti-agere/agedre(or petre/petdre), an NSFW blog/"SFW" kink blogs like Dd!g/abd!/md!b and other variants. Are an 18+ only blog, Terf, etc. Anything that you would not show a child does not belong here ・Bigoted individuals or peoples that believe in Anti-LGBTQIA+, Pro-ana, Pro-SH, Anti-recovery, MIKs or MAPs, Extreme left/right views, Pro-life, Pro-war, transmed, Pro-mia, Anti-Neos/Xenos. ・Over the age of 27. While you could be a regression blog, and completely SFW, individuals over the age of 27 can become a trigger due to my PTSD. Minors are always welcome, although we will most likely not follow back ・Are a blank blog. This means no banner, profile pictures, posts or names. Blogs like those tend to become a problem and we dont wish to deal with it

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Babi likes┊・𓂃 Bubby, jay, baking and cooking, playing games, reading (by myself and with bubby) making decor stuff and making custom things! Blues clues !!! if you see a blues clues ask from an anon, its probably me. Babi dislikes┊・𓂃 Bugs, bugsbugsbugs. Being confronted(confrontation), purposely being misgendered, having my boundaries disrespected, bubby or jay being purposely misgendered, uh-…. i think thats it lol Bubby likes┊・𓂃 BABI BEAR, our friends, gaming, cars, anything that has moving parts, reading and watching crime stuff, watching movies and playing games with babi and our friends, and really love the flash as well! Bubby dislikes┊・𓂃 I dont like icky people coming to talk to babi and i (i dont really like talking to people in general), People misgendering babi or my friends or being rude towards them, and i dont like when people disrespect my boundaries I also dont like the idea of sitters because so many people in the community that we have encountered have bad intentions, but there's nothing else i can think of rn

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✩⸜⸜ Mood/Stimboards ✩⸜⸜ Text post (tips, links, etc) hosted by babi or bubby! ✩⸜⸜ Wear or tear! (W.O.T) ✩⸜⸜ Worksheets ✩⸜⸜ Journal // QOTD hosted by bubby ! ✩⸜⸜ Pos quotes/affirmations

These have no specific Dates, they will be posted as we see fit! Each post will be sent between 12pm and 1pm (don't know when that is? find my timezone above)

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Pronouns page:┊・𓂃 finns page here!

Instagram:┊・𓂃 Agere insta!

Twitch:┊・𓂃 Finn's twitch! || Bubs twitch!

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[natjennie]

if i could go nonverbal for the rest of my life except when I wanna talk about a hyperfixation or make creature sounds I immediately would.

[softest-babie]

NEW CAREGIVERS:

Little space is a very vulnerable headspace. Please remember this, when someone is regressed they are likely to be more sensitive-to everything. Words, tone of voice, volume. Use a soft voice when they're small, unless they are a brat and want that booming "daddy voice". This is something you find out by asking questions AND time. Communication is so so important. While you are in the process of discovering and "just starting out" make sure to ask for everything.

"Do you want your paci now?"

"Do u want daddy to get you a snack?"

"Do u want daddy to help you with that?"

After you're both comfortable, this can stop if you want it to. It's just respectful to ask permission to be daddy right at first. Ask her tons of questions.

"What do you like?"

"What is your favourite colour? Food? Snack? Show?"

Learn everything about her little side. Daddies are supposed to be able to put their babies into littlespace without having to ask what they want every single time. Being able to surprise her with her favourite things is the best feeling! Pay close attention to what kind of regressor she is, there is lots of different kinds. See what age she is acting, and keep in mind it can change! Be prepared for any of the ages, including older ones like 8-12. Most of the time when you get into this it takes a second to find your little age.

0-1: likes babas, minimal walking and talking, diapers, super needy and clingy

2-3: more active, more temperamental, sippy cups, maybe babas, binkies, colouring, will try to do stuff alone but usually ends up needing help

4-6: "no I do it", playing outside, baking cookies, colouring and puzzles, sippy cups or regular ones. Maybe a binky still, some do some dont.

Try and help her figure out her age fairly early, as it helps create and mold the exact dynamic you'll want and need. The sooner she knows what she likes the faster you will both become more comfortable. Please note: YOU might feel uncomfortable sometimes. Even if you do enjoy it and love her that way, we are generally hardwired from toddlerhood that those things are not for adults. It might make you feel weird being called Daddy or Dada at first, but you will learn to love it.

A big thing for the beginning is setting alarms! Set alarms for EVERYTHING. Few examples:

8:30 am: remind her to brush her teeth

12 pm: remind her to eat lunch/make lunch

3 pm: have her lie down for a nap or quiet time

9 pm: be in bed

This helps create the routine and feeling of being responsible for her, which puts you in that "daddy space". after a while, you wont even need the alarms because you will look at the clock and say ope gotta remind her of this or that.

Make sure to never fight while she is in littlespace. Some people dont have this issue, as some regressors will instantly come out of that headspace during a confrontation, I personally am not one of those. If there is an actual issue that isnt like "baby dont colour on yourself", wait until she is adult again to even mention it. Littles tend to worry a lot about burdening or bothering their caregivers and sometimes even a sliver of negativity can completely ruin their night. Just as a simple rule, if she is regressed keep anything negative off the table until later.

Be patient! Some regressors are harder to handle than others. Some are sweet, some are bratty, some are super excitable and loud, some are completely nonverbal. If she ever gets nonverbal, do not get upset if she doesnt answer when you talk to her. Ask her yes/no questions about what she wants or needs.

This is another huge thing: ONLY IF YOU WANT

Find friends in the community. Use fetlife to go to munches or events. Meet people around you so she can go on playdates. This is usually something that happens after you've been doing this a while. My dada and I have playdates with little friends almost weekly and it is such a blast.

Finally, just remember this is a coping mechanism. She regresses to help her mental health. Help her feel good. Never ever use her littleness against her or take advantage of it. Never fight or argue or use rude words while she is regressed, this is a safe space for her. She should absolutely respect you too, but sometimes littles can get a little selfish or self absorbed and do whatever they want. Be patient, learn about her, do research! Tumblr or instagram AGERE accounts are great places to look for nonsexual inspiration and ideas, DDLG/ABDL accounts are great to look for more sexual littles. Be attentive. Do things WITH her, not just next to her. Encourage going on walks, eating good food, getting work done, keeping things clean. Littles THRIVE in healthy environments.

(Vice versa for other pronouns, this was written for a friend where it applied to these)♡